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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Roditelji su \u010desto bombardovani\u00a0 savetima o tome kako je va\u017eno imati razumevanja za svoju decu dok ona prolaze kroz razne razvojne faze.<\/p>\n

„Kada\u00a0 su va\u0161a deca u fazi nicanja zuba, budite tolerantni.”<\/em><\/p>\n

„Kada su u ,,ne\u0107u fazi”, molim vas, oni formiraju identitet, budite tolerantni.”<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0„Kada su u fazi privikavanja na novog \u010dlana porodice, molim vas budite tolerantni.”<\/em><\/p>\n

„Kada su u fazi puberteta, opet vas molim, budite tolerantni.”<\/em><\/p>\n

I sve ovo zaista ima svoje opravdanje, nije prazna pri\u010da. Dobro je da znate razvojne potreba i da ih uva\u017eite,\u00a0 ali… Ali!\u00a0<\/strong>Faza ova, faza ona… Kod neke dece, ka\u017eu roditelji, faze ne prestaju! Uvek je neka aktuelna! Hi, hi, hi! \ud83d\ude00 I sami se roditelji\u00a0 na ovaj komentar naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e nasmeju, ali neki od njih zaista misle i ozbiljno[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

Ko su ti roditelji koji uvek opravdavaju pona\u0161anje svoje dece nekim razvojnim fazama?<\/span><\/h2>\n
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To su oni koji tra\u017ee izgovore!\u00a0 Neki od njih \u010dak i izmisle fazu po potrebi, da bi ih odr\u017eavala na popustljivom putu kojim su krenuli.\u00a0<\/strong>Tako sam \u010dula od roditelja za neke najnovije faze da ih tako nazovemo: „faza kada dete ho\u0107e samo da bude sa mamom”, „faza kada im se jede samo slatko”…<\/p>\n

E dragi roditelji, va\u017eno je da znate, ovo nisu faze. Ovo su izgovori, opravdanja, koja nam omogu\u0107avaju da nastavimo linijom manjeg otpora! Potpuno sam sigurna da to ne radite iz lo\u0161e namere, ali \u0161tetu ipak, moram re\u0107i, pravite.<\/p>\n

Jer kad ne\u0161to proglasimo za fazu, realnost je mnogo lak\u0161a, jer tu se onda ni\u0161ta ne mo\u017ee, to se smatra normalnim, to \u0107e pro\u0107i, to je privremeno i roditelj ne mora ni\u0161ta da menja u svojoj strategiji.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E upravo je ovaj kratak tekst moj poku\u0161aj da vam pomognem da razgrani\u010dite da li je pona\u0161anje va\u0161eg deteta samo faza ili je nedisciplina uzela maha.[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

Ako ste stalno u nekoj fazi, to nisu faze!<\/span><\/h2>\n
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Dalje, deca identitet formiraju u dva navrata i tada su prirodno u stanju bunta:\u00a0 „ne faza” izme\u0111u druge i tre\u0107e godine \u017eivota i faza puberteta.<\/p>\n

Ali pazite, ne faza<\/strong> ne daje detetu za pravo da bude po njegovom! Dete ima prirodnu potrebu da ka\u017ee: „Ne!”, ali roditelj odlu\u010duje! Roditelj vodi i rukovodi, a dete samo iskazuje svoj stav koji mo\u017ee i ne mora biti usvojen.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sli\u010dno je i u pubertetu. Deca imaju bubice, ali im to ne daje za pravo da ne po\u0161tuju roditelje. Ok je da nekada imaju grublji ton, da se povla\u010de u svoju sobu, vi\u0161e brinu o svom izgledu, ali kada „otka\u010de” ili „olade” roditelje kad im oni ne\u0161to govore, to nije zbog puberteta ve\u0107 zbog bezobrazluka<\/strong>!<\/p>\n

Ljubomora je prirodno ose\u0107anje, normalno je da ga dete ose\u0107a, ali mu to ne daje za pravo da maltretira druge, da isteruje svoju volju na svakom koraku, prenema\u017ee se i non-stop od roditelja zahteva pa\u017enju.<\/p>\n

Mislite o ovome pre nego \u0161to slede\u0107i put neko pona\u0161anje okarakteri\u0161ete kao fazu. Kao \u0161to bi rekao na\u0161 dragi pokojni patrijarh Pavle: „Ko ima u\u0161i da \u010duje, neka \u010duje.<\/em>”<\/p>\n

Radujem se kad poma\u017eem!<\/p>\n

Biljana Grbovi\u0107[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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