{"id":3082,"date":"2019-03-06T17:24:47","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T17:24:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/licnirazvoj.rs\/?p=3082"},"modified":"2020-12-07T15:44:01","modified_gmt":"2020-12-07T15:44:01","slug":"da-li-se-cesto-durite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/licnirazvoj.rs\/ro\/da-li-se-cesto-durite\/","title":{"rendered":"Da li se \u010desto &#8222;durite&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Na samom po\u010detku, da otvorim du\u0161u i na\u0161alim se na svoj ra\u010dun tako \u0161to \u0107u vam re\u010di da odli\u010dno znam o \u010demu pi\u0161em, tj. imam mnogo li\u010dnog iskustva na ovu temu. ? Dakle, priznajem!<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #b7618c;\">\u0160ta zna\u010di\u00a0 &#8222;duriti se&#8221;?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Kada se neko duri, on se pona\u0161a uvre\u0111eno, svede komunikaciju na minimum, za\u0107uti, ignori\u0161e, odbija&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #b7618c;\">Za\u0161to se &#8222;durimo&#8221;?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pre svega treba re\u0107i da smo ovu ,,dramsku ve\u0161tinu\u201c od nekoga nau\u010dili. Obuku smo najverovatnije pro\u0161li u porodici, a velike su \u0161anse, da smo sada mi ti koji obu\u010davamo na\u0161u decu.<\/p>\n<p>Generacijama smo u\u010deni da \u00a0gu\u0161imo svoj bes. Na \u017ealost, durenje je skoro potpuno dru\u0161tveno prihvatljivo! Biti uvre\u0111en je legalno, biti besan nije! Biti \u017ertva je dobrodo\u0161lo, pokazati snagu nije<strong>!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Eto za\u0161to, umesto besa, biramo durenje!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Durenje je oblik<strong> pasivne agresije. <\/strong>To je onaj oblik agresije koji smo smeli da ispoljimo!<\/p>\n<p>Dobro je, bolje i\u0161ta nego ni\u0161ta. ?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #b7618c;\">Zbog \u010dega je durenje \u0161tetno?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Durenje je izbegavanje otvorene komunikacije, a dok ne otvorimo neku temu, nemamo na\u010din ni da je re\u0161imo.<\/p>\n<p>Dalje, durenje dugo traje pa daje ljudima priliku da me\u0111usobno zahlade.<\/p>\n<p>Tre\u0107e, ali ne manje va\u017eno je \u010dinjenica da druga strana vrlo \u010desto ne zna razloge zbog kojih se durimo. 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